Are mature responsible men so hard to find?, I know the population ratio of female to male is high but so?...This is something that has got me thinking for a while now, I may not be mature enough to understand the dating world but I tell you, it's quite embarrassing to hear the words that comes out of some females mouth. If you have ever entered a public transport or opportune to help a relative in the market place, you would understand where I'm coming from!!.
You would hear statements like:
You would hear statements like:
- The man get wife so what?, she neva born for am sef (pidgin).....meaning> The man has a wife, what difference does it make, when she doesn't have a child for him.
- The wife no sabi cook oooo, he love my food (pidgin)....meaning> His wife doesn't know how to cook, he enjoys my food more.
- He say he wife no sabi bedmatics, na my own him prefer (pidgin)....meaning> He said his wife isn't good in bed, I'm better.
- Once I carry belle, he go leave him wife for me (pidgin)....meaning> He would leave his wife for me, eventually I get pregnant.
- The man wife no get him time, na me be him handbag (pidgin)....meaning> His wife is a very busy woman and doesn't have time for her husband, he takes me everywhere.
- He say he no love him wife (pidgin)....meaning> He said that he doesn't love his wife.
- I be dey date am before he marry her (pidgin)...meaning> I used to date him, before he got married.
- The wife no dey respect the man, na me love am pass (pidgin)..meaning> His wife has little or no respect for him, I love him more.
Shocking right?... Funny but true!! What happened to our self respect as women? This doesn't happen to just married couples alone, even in the dating/courting world, we hear funny stories of girlfriends pouring acids on another female (in the name of 'fighting for her man') and wives beating up the side chic in question. What happened to the time of our mothers, when both females ends up 'dealing with' the man, upon discovery of the games played on them......but NO!!! Things don't play like that anymore because now, some sidechics think they have absolute right to claim the man in question.
For some of us that may not understand what I mean by the term "SIDECHIC", let me go futher and explain....A sidechic is a female, who is in a sexual/affectionate relationship with a man who is already in a certified relationship (whether married or courting). Some of you would be wondering, why I added the word 'verified' to sidechic (smiles). A "VERIFIED SIDECHIC" is one who knows of the man current relationship status but isn't scared to be involved in any form of relations with him because she lacks self respect for herself, doesn't have the fear of God in her, sees the other female as little threat and she's a selfish one, who prefers only the output of relationships.
In as much as the 'sidechic' is frowned upon in our society, they exist. These are ladies, mothers pray for their sons not to come in contact with, wives spend hours praying about because their shameless act flow with all form of evil........and their action comes from excuses of a bad breakup, rapes, lack of attention from parents, bad experience(so payback!) or from them been abandoned as kids. Some ladies do like watered grass, they tend to go after their friends boyfriends because the friend looks happy in her relationship and want that same happiness from that same man for herself (scary right?)
The 'verified sidechic' is a female who is looking for love and attention so bad, she does not mind fighting another woman, forgoing her pride and shame just to get what she emotionally craves for. Funny enough, such confidence and boldness must have come from the sweet words she recieves from the man in question.
Who is to blame for the outburst of a sidechic?
The man who encouraged the relationship?
The female who agreed to date a married, or engaged man?
The wife who is not able to satisfy her husbands needs(unknowingly)?
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For some of us that may not understand what I mean by the term "SIDECHIC", let me go futher and explain....A sidechic is a female, who is in a sexual/affectionate relationship with a man who is already in a certified relationship (whether married or courting). Some of you would be wondering, why I added the word 'verified' to sidechic (smiles). A "VERIFIED SIDECHIC" is one who knows of the man current relationship status but isn't scared to be involved in any form of relations with him because she lacks self respect for herself, doesn't have the fear of God in her, sees the other female as little threat and she's a selfish one, who prefers only the output of relationships.
In as much as the 'sidechic' is frowned upon in our society, they exist. These are ladies, mothers pray for their sons not to come in contact with, wives spend hours praying about because their shameless act flow with all form of evil........and their action comes from excuses of a bad breakup, rapes, lack of attention from parents, bad experience(so payback!) or from them been abandoned as kids. Some ladies do like watered grass, they tend to go after their friends boyfriends because the friend looks happy in her relationship and want that same happiness from that same man for herself (scary right?)
The 'verified sidechic' is a female who is looking for love and attention so bad, she does not mind fighting another woman, forgoing her pride and shame just to get what she emotionally craves for. Funny enough, such confidence and boldness must have come from the sweet words she recieves from the man in question.
Who is to blame for the outburst of a sidechic?
The man who encouraged the relationship?
The female who agreed to date a married, or engaged man?
The wife who is not able to satisfy her husbands needs(unknowingly)?
Let us keep the comment section busy.....feel free to share and subscribe to blog. XOXO
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